Sexual Intelligence
The Psychology of Desire
Sexual Intelligence
The Psychology of Desire
About Me
Dr. Eva Love — Psychosexual Consultant, Writer, and Founder of the Phoenix Foundation
I was born in Moscow in a family of academics, moved to Budapest at fifteen, and later graduated with a degree in Business.
I lived in ten countries — from Italy to the United States — worked in corporate sales, consulting, real estate, and psychology. But life led me somewhere deeper.
After experiencing sexual violence myself, my entire worldview changed.
My relationships with men, my expectations of partnership, my sense of safety, and my belief in love were all shattered and rebuilt from the ground up.
I spent years studying psychology, sexuality, trauma, and human behavior — not just academically, but through my own healing.
I worked as a coach, a psychosexual consultant, and, at times, as a professional dominatrix — because in that space people finally tell the truth about their desires.
Through all of this, I discovered one essential truth:
Sexuality is the engine of human life — of energy, creativity, ambition, and emotional connection.
But we live in a culture that suppresses desire.
A culture still influenced by two thousand years of shame and moral control.
A culture that forces people to hide the most human part of themselves.
My work exists to change that.
My book Desire Archetype Model explores the structure of sexual fantasies — how they form, why they don’t change, and how they can transform relationships when understood correctly.
My method Objective Kinetics (OK) uses imagination, narrative constructs, and psychosexual awareness to help people overcome addictions, trauma patterns, emotional suppression, and numbness.
And my foundation Phoenix helps survivors of sexual violence rebuild their inner world — with dignity, compassion, and truth.
Today I work with:
- men and women who want to reconnect with their sensuality
- couples who want to bring intimacy back to their relationship
- individuals who want to understand their fantasies
- survivors who want a new life
- and anyone ready to step into a life shaped by truth rather than fear
My mission is simple:
To help you rediscover your desire, reclaim your power, and build a life worthy of your soul.
Begin your transformation.
If you are ready to understand your desires, heal your past, improve your intimacy, or reconnect with the person you love — I am here for you.
Choose your path:
1. Private Session (Online or in Budapest)
A psychosexual session integrating psychology, fantasy analysis, and emotional alignment.
2. Three-Session Program (Recommendation)
A structured process based on the OK Method:
Understand → Accept → Transform
Perfect for individuals or couples seeking long-term change.
3. Phoenix Foundation (Support & Healing)
If you are a survivor — you are not alone.
If you want to support survivors — your contribution matters.
4. Explore My Books and Methods
Desire Archetype Model
Mindshift to Recovery
Objective Kinetics (OK) — coming soon
5. Join My Online Program
Get access to my videos, teachings, and insights.
Your new life starts now.
Choose desire.
Choose truth.
Choose yourself.
Whenever you’re ready — I’m here.
— Dr. Eva Love
Read the Book That Started It All
Desire Archetype Model by Dr. Eva Love
€13.00
Before desire can be reignited — it must be understood.
My book, Desire Archetype Model, reveals the hidden patterns that shape every relationship — why desire fades, and how to bring it back.
It’s not just a book.
It’s a mirror for your love life — and a manual for the art of keeping it alive.
💋 Read it with your man. Talk. Laugh. Discover.
Because every great love story deserves a second act.
Testimonials
Dear Eva,
Allow me to call you simply Eva rather than Dr. Eva Love. Although we’ve never met, I feel as though you are already a friend from afar — from a world I have always longed to enter but never quite reached.
I’ve just finished reading your book, and I’m overwhelmed with gratitude and excitement. I read it in one sitting, from beginn
Dear Eva,
Allow me to call you simply Eva rather than Dr. Eva Love. Although we’ve never met, I feel as though you are already a friend from afar — from a world I have always longed to enter but never quite reached.
I’ve just finished reading your book, and I’m overwhelmed with gratitude and excitement. I read it in one sitting, from beginning to end, finding myself reflected in so many of your words.
I now feel you are not only the woman before whom I would have gladly knelt, but also the one to whom I would have entrusted all my feelings.
You’ve made me feel at home even from afar. You’ve made me proud of my own blend of archetypes, no matter how difficult it’s been to express them over the past 40 years.
Thank you, Dr. Eva Love. Thank you, Eva, for opening a whole new world of possibilities for the young boy who still lives inside this 59-year-old man.
Thank you — once again, thank you.
BETAnly and OMEGAntly yours,
Michael, 60
Dear Eva,
I received your book as a birthday gift, and it turned out to be the best present I could have imagined. At 65, I realized how little I truly understood my own sexuality.
Thanks to your book, I finally spoke openly with my partner — and together we experienced the most fulfilling and intimate sex of our entire relationship.
Thank y
Dear Eva,
I received your book as a birthday gift, and it turned out to be the best present I could have imagined. At 65, I realized how little I truly understood my own sexuality.
Thanks to your book, I finally spoke openly with my partner — and together we experienced the most fulfilling and intimate sex of our entire relationship.
Thank you, Eva, for giving me the courage and the tools to rediscover passion at this stage of life.
Peter, 65
Dear Eva,
We read your book together as a couple, curious but also a little skeptical at first. What we discovered inside those pages surprised us both: we saw each other in a completely new light.
For years, we struggled to talk openly about our desires. Your Desire Archetype Model gave us a language — and the courage — to finally share th
Dear Eva,
We read your book together as a couple, curious but also a little skeptical at first. What we discovered inside those pages surprised us both: we saw each other in a completely new light.
For years, we struggled to talk openly about our desires. Your Desire Archetype Model gave us a language — and the courage — to finally share the truth of who we are.
That night, we laughed, we cried, and we touched each other with a new sense of freedom. We feel like we are falling in love all over again.
Thank you for helping us find not just passion, but also honesty and trust.”**
— Anna & David, married 22 years